(UNKNOWN Asks:)
i`m stressing over everything...its like i`m always here for everyone i find solutions to nearly everyones problems and i`m always there for all my friend through thick and thin but when i`m stuck in problems its so hard to find the solution for myself and i end up ignoring it and concentrating on other peoples lives... i`m escaping arent i...lol....its like i have exams life depending exams so many people have struggled so much to make me be where i am now...but i cant even pick up the book without crying because its sooo hard last time i failed and i studied hard enough but this time if i try again and fail then its gona be even more painfull.... i`ve dreamed so many times and all those dreams have fallen into pieces so many times... with my dad its like i always hoped he`d stop causing all the problems he did wen he was young but then i was always let down with every hope...grew up a bit then fell in love and then i found out it was all a lie and cheat... lost faith in love.. then tried to study but failed my exams... i`m so scared of trying again and failing... not only just failing maybe my mum and dads relationship will be on the line for that happening and i cant concentrate i wasted a day my books were open and while i read the page i cried and remembered all that i`ve lost love trust and relationships.....what do i do?
(Jag Says:)
o.k, I here your story, and your story is no different to my life..
Lets start at the top, i think your relationship with your dad as effected you alot... my advice for you here, is sit down with him, spend some time with him, and get him to talk to you on your level... this is not easy but if you want to get over this period, then you will have to confront him one day...
Thinking about failing is the first sign that you have already failed... So stop thinking negative, and think positive... concentrate on the job in hand... ie your exams, forget anyone else...
Boyfriend problems... trust me they are not worth hassle... my advice on that is, make yourself good at everything, seek no ones attention, and then you will see mr right appear for you... (love is not a bad thing, but its not a good thing either)
Friends... Friends come and go, you sound alot like me, ie give all, and take non, more importantly, no one is there for you when you need them... what you must ask yourself... your friends do not understand your needs, thats why they cannot be there for you... find someone that will understand you and your thinking...
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